Going from mom to responsive sexual partner isn’t a 10 second ordeal. For women, the brain is the biggest sexual organ meaning we have to plan and put significant effort into being sexual available. After the kids get into grandma’s car or go to sleep, here are five easy ways to transition into someone your husband isn’t afraid might bite his head off should he get any ideas.
5. Take a shower with a special body wash. The scent will melt away the day’s stresses
4. Change your clothes. Slip into something other than a huge t-shirt or sweatpants.
3. Touch up your makeup. This sounds crazy, right? Who puts makeup on at night? Looking into the mirror and seeming a ragamuffin does not make you feel hot. This isn’t for your husband, it’s for you. A little eyeliner and lip gloss works wonders.
2. Light a candle…or two. Candlelight is almost magical in it’s effect to transform a room full of unfolded laundry into a love den
1. About that laundry…put it in the living room. It’s hard to feel relaxed in a pigsty. Make sure your bedroom is a clean, relaxing environment. That means no bills, newspapers, or clutter!
Good luck 
I often say that staying in the “Sex and the Sippy” mindset is not an 8pm-10pm operation. Have you heard the phrase, “foreplay starts in morning?” In order to feel like sexy time is at all an option after chasing kids and doing endless loads of laundry you’re going to have to put some effort in mammas.
One thing I love to do is send my husband romantic e-cards. What better way to make sure that I’m constantly on his mind? He knows you’re his wife, why not be his girlfriend sometimes? When the flirting stays in tact, sex lives stay protected and fresh.
This is the website I use: http://www.naughtycards.com/home.aspx
Some of them are edgier than others, choose wisely. Some workplaces have monitoring software and *gasp* don’t send anything that he’d have to explain if a co-worker saw his screen. Think cute, romantic, and playful.
One of the reasons Sex and the Sippy exists is because there are way too many people not having sex who should be. There are organizations and religious groups everywhere trying to stop teens from having sex because we know how emotionally and physically disastrous for teens to get down, but what about moms and dads who are practicing unnecessary abstinence?
With the divorce rates as high as they are, regular nookie is more important than ever. Mom, if you still think cleaning the kitchen is more important than hitting the sheets, here are some sad stats from Dr. Phil.com
Sad Stats
Married couples say they have sex an average of 68.5 times a year. That’s slightly more than once a week. — Newsweek
Married people have 6.9 more sexual encounters per year than people who have never been married. — Newsweek
15 to 20 percent of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year, which experts define as a sexless marriage. — Newsweek
20 to 30 percent of men and 30 to 50 percent of women say they have little or no sex drive. — USA Today
25 percent of all Americans (a third of women and a fifth of men) suffer from a condition known as hypoactive sexual desire (HSD), which is defined as a persistent or recurring deficiency or absence of sexual fantasies or thoughts, or a lack of interest in sex or being sexual. — Psychology Today
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/372
